Wednesday, July 1, 2009
High Tolerance? Easy Going? Forgiving Nature?
I wonder how should I praise Ah boy? Or rather how should I teach him?
For the 2nd day in a row, he was bitten by Kai Xian AGAIN!!! This time on his right hand. Not only am I angry, his dad & ah ma are also angry at the behavior of Kai Xian. His teacher has mentioned that she will separate the 2 boys, to prevent such incident from happening the 3rd time. Keeping my fingers crossed that it has ended.
Upon hearing the 2nd time he got bitten, I felt the urge to teach Ah boy to bite back Kai Xian. I know that this behavior is not correct.. but I cant stand the thought that my boy is bitten for nothing for 2 times. Everyone fights and snatch toys in the school, but Kai Xian doesn’t have to resort to biting to get the toys. End up after thinking for quite some time, I ask ah boy to avoid Kai Xian & if he bite again, push him away.
However, this morning when Ah boy go school, after he washed his hand, he sat right NEXT to Kai Xian again. Hai~! I understand the other teachers are not aware of the incident, but I highlight again to Ah boy’s Chinese teacher who came back only today. Think I heard the teacher questioning Kai Xian when I left the centre. As for Ah boy, he has no hard-feeling about the biting issue. He still feel okay to sit next to Kai Xian, play wif Kai Xian. I don’t see any hatred in him. Is it because he still don understand the situation? Or he is very easy going? Or he’s very forgetful (abt the biting issues)? Forgiving? Or he can tolerate more bitings from Kai Xian? Hai..
It’s pain me to see him get hurt…