Wednesday, August 15, 2007
ANGRY & BAD MOOD
I'm very angry & pissed off today. WHY? All thanks to my MIL. I really don understand how she take care of ah boy, can let him slp whole day, and nite time become so awake. Wkends wen i look after ah boy myself, he can slp so soundly at nite, maybe wake up once for a milk feeding, sum times can even slp from 9pm thru to the next morning at 6 or 7am. BUT for wkday, under MIL's care, he can wake up a few times a nite, minimum 2 times to maxi 4-5 times!
Take last nite for eg, he slp only at 11+pm, den 2.45am wake up for a milk feeding, den 5am wake up again. I fed him wif water, coz it impossible for him to b hungry as he juz drank 2hrs ago. He slept at 5.15am. Den 5.45am, he woke up again... Alamak.. again crying for water... he awake till 6am when his useless dad woke up. His dad ignored his cry n go prepare for his work!* ?!?!~!* And ah boy make so much noise i put him beside me on the big bed, he end up kicking n flipping onto me, kept disturbing me n don let me slp!!! Den at 6.45, he doze off again, and my stupid alarm rings at 7am! Wat the F**k!! N while i bathing, ah boy wake up again... crying n making so much noise tt i have to rush thru my bath... Cant stand him nowadays, wen v r out of his sight, he cries so loudly... as if v are ditching him 4ever!
Den wen i send ah boy to MIL, i specifically highlight he kept waking up a few times last nite, and i don noe y she don understand my simple chinese:
Me: 你可以不要放伟伦在摇蓝上睡觉?
(Too late to convert to chinese character, below conversation in chinese)
MIL: I already wake him up if he slp too long.
Me: (To emphasize my previous qns, i rephase my statement) Try put him slp on the bed, then he will take a shorter nap instead.
MIL: Cannot, he will sweat a lot when he wake up.
#!@?#!~*
Harlow! My hse got no sarong, he still slp on his bb cot or my big bed, but i nvr seen him wake up in sweat b4? The sarong at MIL hse is juz beside her big bed, how come he slp sarong no sweat, and wen slp bed will sweat all over? Ridiculous reply...
Tis situations have been gng on for quite a while... n i feel it so unfair to me. Me n hb work daytime n he hardly wake up to feed bb. We BOTH pay MIL market rate (nanny salary) to take care of ah boy. Yet she let him slp so much in day time, n cause him nite time unable to slp, which in turn cause me slpless nite. I'm still nid to work in the daytime! Everytime end up so slpy in the afternn. I now threatening hb to do some action, if not i either send ah boy to a infant care (= MIL allowance) or i QUIT and be a Stay-At-Home-Mum!!! & let Hb take care of all expenses, while i guarantee ah boy wont disturb his slp by waking up so many times a nite!
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